| Location | Beckenham |
| Age | 24 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 31/07/1981 |
| Date of Death | 16/06/2006 |
| Visitors | 20,772 since 07/02/2007 |
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PLEASE READ.....I WILL BE OF LINE FOR A WHILE>>LOTS OF LOVE TO YOUR ANGELS AND TO ALL MY GTS
FRIENDS>XXX
STUART WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
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Precious son of Yvonne & Roger
Much loved brother of Colene & Karen
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Our hearts are full of love for the Son
We'll always treasure
We grieve not only his passing
but the years we will not share with him.
We will not let your passing
To become more inportant than your life.
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Stuart was born on the 31st July 1981.Stuart grew up in Beckenham where until recently he lived
with his mum and dad Yvonne and Roger. Stuart had worked as a roofer,but was out of work when he
was killed in a tragic road accident on the 16th June 2006. Stuart had gone out for a drink with two
of his closest friends,but had left them to make his way home. Stuart was on his own when he was hit
by a car, there is no blame on the driver it was a tragic accident.
Stuart has two sisters Colene and Karen and three nephews and one niece, Alex Kieran Katie And
Jack. He thought the world of them all.
Stuart was a very kind hearted person,he didn\'t have much but what he had he would always share.
Stuart thought the world of his friends and would always refer to them as his Bros.
Stuart got on with everybody he was a very friendly out going person.
He loved children and they all loved him,they just seemed to take to him.
There are times he made us laugh and times he made us cry but we are so proud he was our son and we
are so glad he was given to us even if it was for a short while.
Stuart was a very special person and losing him has left a pain in our hearts and a great gape in
our lifes which can never be filled until the time comes for us to be reunited with him.. Words
cannot spell out how much we love and miss you Stuart, the tears keep falling and the pain won\'tgo
away. .. If we could take your place we wouldn\'t hesitate.
xxxxxx WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH xxxxxx
IN LOVING MEMORY
OF OUR PRECIOUS SON
Something will remind us
We never know just when
It might be something someone says
and it all comes back again.
The times we spent together
The happiness, the fun,
Once again we feel the pain
Of life without our SON.
It says that times a healer
i\'m not sure this is true,
there\'s not a day goes by SON
That we don\'t t cry for you.
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Thank you to everyone who has looked at Stuarts site and for adding a tribute or lighting a
candle. We thank you all for your continuous support.
When you lose someone you love
The hurt is hard to bare
But when you lose a son like mine
The hurt is always there
Your smile has gone forever
Your hand I cannot touch
I will never lose the memory
Of the son I loved so much
A LETTER FROM HEAVEN.XXXX
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I welcome you.'
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.'
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......'My day was not in vain.'
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
~Author~
Ruth Ann Mahaffey
©Copyright 1998
Written in memory of my late husband, Richard Mahaffey
Thinking of you.XXX
How quickly can you miss someone
A week,an hour,a day,
We started missing you Stuart
The minute you went away.
We try to come to terms with it
And accept that you have gone,
But without you life is not the same
It's such a struggle to go on.
We think God must have looked down
And seen how good you were
And he needed a special angel
To lend a hand up there.
It's the only thing we can think of
What other reason could there be?
We just wish He'd send you home
And from this heartbreak we'd be free.
A Broken Heart That Speaks
I feel more depressed
Each day when I awake
I wish to god you could tell me
There has been a big mistake.
My darling son was taken
From his mothers love
To live with the angels
In heaven up above
I did not have him with me
For the time I should have had
No longer can I hold him
Which makes me very sad?
The pain of losing my son
Shows in every single tear
I spend each day missing you
Longing to have you near
Life for me is lonely now
Without you by my side
My Broken shattered heart
Is very hard to hide
People tell me that time is a healer
That the pain will go away
They don’t understand
That this pain is here to stay
For when you lose a child
There is nothing that can compare
The bond we had at their birth
Will never leave, it’s always there
The love a mother has
Runs so very deep
That love is so special
It’s in her heart to keep
A mother’s heart is broken
She is ripped apart inside
There is a part of her missing
It left when her child died
So please don’t tell me to get over it
For this I can not do
Unless you understand my feelings
And this has happened to you
Only another mother who has lost a child
Can understand my pain
Because the also suffer daily
As the memories of their child remain
We are a band of mothers
Whose hearts will never heal?
For the loss of our children
Is for us, so very real.
TOUCHED BY ANGELS.XXX
WE ARE TOUCHED BY ANGELS
AND WALK WERE ANGELS TREAD,
THEY WILL GUIDE US ,
WALK BESIDE US
THROUGH THE DAYS AHEAD.
IN THE HOURS OF DARKNESS,
WHEN OUR DREAMS HAVE FLOWN,
THEY BRING HOPE
AND GENTLE HEALING,
WE ARE NOT ALONE.
IN OUR TIMES OF DOUBTING,
STILL THEY UNDERSTAND,
AND FOREVER
TOUCHED BY ANGELS,
WE WALK HAND IN HAND.
THINKING OF YOU YVONNE.XXXX
My Friend
I'm sending you this little note it comes with love to say,
I've asked your guardian angel to watch over you each day,
For whenever your feeling down your angels sure to know,
And you'll soon receive guidance and will know which way to go,
Don't let your troubles worry you dear friend you will be fine,
For your loved and protected by a presence that's divine.
With love to yvonne from Andrea xxx
Thank you Yvonne
Hi Yvonne, that you for the picture you put on Baby Angel's site. I was lighting a candle as it came through! Thank you for thinking of my little Angel when your loss is so huge.
Have a lovely weekend, I hope you are doing something nice.
lots of love to you always, Sallyann xxx
dove of love and peace
we are sending a dove
to heaven with a parcel
on it,s wings
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be careful when you
open it its full
of beautiful things
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inside are a million
kisses wrapped up in
a million hugs
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to say how much we
miss you and send
you all our love
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love pauline xxxxx
Do you make them laugh in heaven,
Does your smile bring them good cheer?
Do you make the sun shine brighter,
Like you did when you were here?
You meant so very much to us,
There's nothing left to say,
Except that without you here
There is no perfect day.
We want to tell you something
So there wont be any doubt,
You're so wondeful to think of,
But so hard to be without.....
with love Yvonne xxx
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ASK MY MUM HOW IS SHE.
My Mum she tells a lot of lies,
She never did before.
From now until the day she dies,
she'll tell a whole lot more.
She used to tell the truth a lot, but now it doesn't matter,
I died and went to heaven, her life is all a-shatter.
Ask my Mum how is she,
She'll say 'Yes I'm Fine',
She wants to beg please help me,
I so miss that boy of mine!
Ask my Mum how is she,
She will say 'I'm alright',
If thats the truth then tell me,
Why does she cry each night?
Ask my Mum how is she,
She seems to cope so well,
She didn't have a choice you see,
Nor the strength to yell.
You think you know the feeling, but this cannot be,
For even though you loved me,
You didn't love as much as she.
She will smile and tell you, 'I'ts OK, God has a plan'
but she will turn away and cry, Cause she just can't understand.
Tell a joke and she will laugh, but she is not OK,
She wants to share the joke with me, but it will not be today.
I watch from here in Heaven, her distress, disturbs my peace,
Will someone please take care of her, and thus take care of me?
'Someday you will feel better', 'Yes, I Will', she lies,
She knows this will not happen, Until the day she dies.
'I was so lucky! I had him all those years!,
(They passed in a minute, I shed so many tears)
Ask my Mum how is she, She'll say 'Thank You, Good',
She cannot tell you how she feels, Oh, how I wish she could.
Ask my Mum how is she, 'I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping.'
For God Sake, Mum Just Tell The Truth, Just say your heart is broken.
Ask my Mum how is she, 'I'm well, I'm good, and you?'
I'll shake my head in Heaven, it simply isn't true.
She'll love me all of her life, I loved her all of mine,
But if you ask how is she, she'll lie, and say she's fine.
Her carnival is over, she stepped off the carousel,
But to save you feeling badly, She'll say 'Thanks all is well'
My Mum, She's not gone mad, Yet,
But Oh so very nearly,
Don't ask my Mum how is she?
Ask how is she, really.
I am here in Heaven, I cannot hug from here,
If she lies to you, don't listen, hug her, hold her near.
On the day we meet again, We'll smile and I'll be bold,
I'll say 'YOU WERE LUCKY TO GET IN HERE MUM, WITH ALL THOSE LIES YOU TOLD'.
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