| Location | Beckenham |
| Age | 24 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 31/07/1981 |
| Date of Death | 16/06/2006 |
| Visitors | 20,626 since 07/02/2007 |
| Creator |
STUART WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
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Precious son of Yvonne & Roger
Much loved brother of Colene & Karen
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Our hearts are full of love for the Son
We'll always treasure
We grieve not only his passing
but the years we will not share with him.
We will not let your passing
To become more inportant than your life.
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Stuart was born on the 31st July 1981.Stuart grew up in Beckenham where until recently he lived
with his mum and dad Yvonne and Roger. Stuart had worked as a roofer,but was out of work when he
was killed in a tragic road accident on the 16th June 2006. Stuart had gone out for a drink with two
of his closest friends,but had left them to make his way home. Stuart was on his own when he was hit
by a car, there is no blame on the driver it was a tragic accident.
Stuart has two sisters Colene and Karen and three nephews and one niece, Alex Kieran Katie And
Jack. He thought the world of them all.
Stuart was a very kind hearted person,he didn\'t have much but what he had he would always share.
Stuart thought the world of his friends and would always refer to them as his Bros.
Stuart got on with everybody he was a very friendly out going person.
He loved children and they all loved him,they just seemed to take to him.
There are times he made us laugh and times he made us cry but we are so proud he was our son and we
are so glad he was given to us even if it was for a short while.
Stuart was a very special person and losing him has left a pain in our hearts and a great gape in
our lifes which can never be filled until the time comes for us to be reunited with him.. Words
cannot spell out how much we love and miss you Stuart, the tears keep falling and the pain won\'tgo
away. .. If we could take your place we wouldn\'t hesitate.
xxxxxx WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH xxxxxx
IN LOVING MEMORY
OF OUR PRECIOUS SON
Something will remind us
We never know just when
It might be something someone says
and it all comes back again.
The times we spent together
The happiness, the fun,
Once again we feel the pain
Of life without our SON.
It says that times a healer
i\'m not sure this is true,
there\'s not a day goes by SON
That we don\'t t cry for you.
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Thank you to everyone who has looked at Stuarts site and for adding a tribute or lighting a
candle. We thank you all for your continuous support.
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Time has stood still for those who love you,
the grief is still fresh, their hearts are still blue.
Memories can ease pain but they never can fill,
the space that is left when they think of you still.
So stay near to those who miss you each day,
for they carry a sadness since you went away.
Send the strength to cope where others have tried,
and some love for their hearts that hurt deep inside.
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Love from Liz, Stuart's mum xx
Tributes For This Week
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FOR MON
Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
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FOR TUES
Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
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FOR WED
Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
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FOR THUR
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
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FOR FRI
If we could have a lifetime wish
and one dream that could come true
We would pray to God with all our
hearts just to see and speak to you
A thousand words won’t bring you back
We know because we’ve tried
and neither will a million tears
We know because we’ve cried
You’ve left behind our broken hearts
and precious memories too
But we’ve never wanted memories
We only wanted you
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FOR SAT
God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
and whispered "Come to Me".
With tearful eyes we watched you,
we watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
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FOR SUN
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Sunday Poem
A Love to be taken was out of our control
The Lord came lovingly and took your soul
In came the silence as the angels crept
And raised you from where you silently slept
Quietly we whispered that we loved you
Until the point you were out of view
A final glimpse as the sparkle goes out
You will be loved there we have no doubt
We never wanted to lose someone so dear
God took your life but he left your love here.
aj09
Candles in the Night
Candles flame in darkness,
Flicker, steadily glow,
Bringing light from shadows
And help to soothe me so.
My son, like the candles,
Gave my life true light,
I use the candle's beacon
To connect us in the night.
As I light the candles,
My wish and my request
Is that he'll see my signal
And know my love's expressed.
As his light joins my lights,
Our worlds touch and flame.
As I snuff out the candles,
I softly say his name.
By Genesse Bourdeau Gentry
I reach out to you,
You reach for me.
We're grieving parents
And will always be.
I searched and found you
As other parents will
And I'm now here to help you
Pull them all up the hill.
Working together in sadness,
Working together in sorrow,
We'll join hands and hearts
To face each new tomorrow.
It won't be easy friends
But somehow we'll get through.
Together my new pals,
We have work to do.
Not the kind to bend our backs.
Nor the kind that makes us sweat.
This work is called Compassion
For everyone we've met.
Because they're hurting badly
They've lost their baby, too
They're looking for some comfort
From friends like me and you.
So welcome the newly bereaved.
Reach out and draw them near.
Hold their pain close to yours.
Help them know that life IS dear.
Though the hurt will never go away,
The edge will someday soften.
The tears will fall in torrents,
But....just not as often.
The days and months that follow
On Death's cruel wake
Swirl like endless madness
Till a friend's hand we take.
A friend who's been there, done that
Knows our pain too well,
Can comfort and can guide us
From our frightening hell.
In my thoughts & prayers. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
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✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿YOU ARE RESTING IN HEAVEN,
┊ ┊┊ ┊┊ ✿YOUR SPIRIT IS STILL ALIVE,
┊ ┊┊ ✿✿SHINING BRIGHTLY IN HEAVEN'S
┊ ┊┊ BEAUTIFUL SKY.YOU HAVE FAMILY
┊ ✿✿WHICH WILL MISS YOU ALL THE TIME.
┊ SO KNOW YOU CAN REST YOUR HEAD AND FOLLOW
┊ THE STARS WHERE THE ANGELS TOOK YOU
✿ THROUGH THE PEARLY GATES OF HEAVEN.
TRIBUTE FOR FRIDAY 18-09-09
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✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿WHILE PETALS FALL
┊ ┊┊ ┊┊ ✿AND BLOSSOMS FADE.
┊ ┊┊ ✿✿OUR MEMORIES WILL LINGER ON.
┊ ┊┊ AND RECOLLECTIONS OF THOSE HAPPY
┊ ✿✿ DAYS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
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TRIBUTE FOR SATURDAY 19-09-09.
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✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿ LOOKING BACK ON DAYS GONE BY
┊ ┊┊ ┊┊ ✿OUR MANY HOPE'S AND DREAMS
┊ ┊┊ ✿✿TO LOSE TOU WAS SO DIFFICULT
┊ ┊┊ TO KEEP YOU WAS IMPOSSIABLE
┊ ✿✿BUT WITH EVERY DAY THAT PASSES
┊ OUR LOVE JUST GROWS STRONGER. ✿
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TRIBUTE FOR SUNDAY 20-09-09.
✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿WE HAVE A SPECIAL LOVE FOR YOU
┊ ┊┊ ┊┊ ✿THAT ONLY SEEMS TO GROW,
┊ ┊┊ ✿✿IT KEEPS ON GETTING STRONGER
┊ ┊┊ TO THOSE WHO LOVE YOU SO.
┊ ✿✿ THAT IS WHY YOUR LOVED
┊ WITH EVERY PASSING DAY
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I WOULD LIKE TO WISH YOU ALL A LOVELY WEEKEND
TAKECARE AND GOOD BLESS,WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX
A pair of shoes
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes. They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realise that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in the world.
Some women are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think
about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
ANON
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LOOKS LIKE I MIGHT NEED TO GET A NEW COMPUTER BORROWED ONE FOR TODAY SO WILL HAVE TO DO TRIBUTES FOR A WEEK AT A TIME FOR NOW I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR YOUR CONTINUED SUPPORT WITH ALL THE MESSAGES YOU LEAVE FOR CHRISTOPHER & I
THANKS AGAIN ANGELA X
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FOR MONDAY
Always a smile, instead of a frown,
Always a hand, when one is down,
Always true, thoughtful and kind,
Wonderful memories they left behind.
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FOR TUESDAY
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed, and very dear.
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FOR WEDNESDAY
Although we smile and make no fuss,
No one misses them more than us;
And when old times we oft recall,
That's when we miss them most of all.
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FOR THURSDAY
Every tear is a prism through which I see,
A rainbow of emotions and memories,
Though fate has led you to another place,
True moments hold meaning time can never erase.
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FOR FRIDAY
In tears we saw you sinking,
We watched you fade away,
Our hearts were almost broken,
You fought so hard to stay,
But when we saw you sleeping,
So peacefully free from pain,
We could not wish you back,
To suffer that again.
It's lonely here without you,
We miss you more each day,
For life is not the same to us,
Since you were called away.
To your resting place we visit,
Place flowers there with care,
But no one knows our heartache,
When we turn and leave you there
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FOR SATURDAY
We often think of bygone days,
When we were all together,
The family chain is broken now,
But memories will live forever,
To us, you have not gone away,
Nor has you travelled far,
Just entered God's eternal home,
And left the gate ajar.
If we had all the world to give,
We'd give it, yes, and more,
To hear his voice, see his smile,
And greet him at the door.
But all we can do, ,
Is go and tend your grave,
And leave behind tokens of love,
To the best loved one God made.
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FOR SUNDAY
Though your smile is gone forever,
And your hand we cannot touch,
Still we have so many memories,
Of the ones we loved so much.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in His keeping,
We have you in our hearts.
It’s so strange that those we need
And those we love the best,
Are just the ones God called away
And took them home to rest,
But every time I think of you,
I seem to hear God say,
Have faith and trust my promise
You’ll meet again some day.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Hello, Old Friend,
Oh, yes, you know
I lost my child a while ago.
No, no please
Don’t look away
And change the subject
It’s ok.
You see, at first I couldn’t feel,
It took so long, but now it’s real.
I hurt so much inside you see
I need to talk,
Come sit with me?
You see, I was numb for so very long,
And people said, “My, she is so strong.”
They did not know I couldn’t feel,
My broken heart made all unreal.
But then one day, as I awoke
I clutched my chest, began to choke,
Such a scream, such a wail,
Broke from me…
My child! My child!
The horror of reality.
But everyone has moved on, you see,
everyone except for me.
Now, when I need friends most of all,
Between us there now stands a wall.
My pain is more than they can bear,
When I mention my child,
I see their blank stare.
“But I thought you were over it,”
Their eyes seem to say,
No, no, I can’t listen to this, not today.
So I smile and pretend, and say, “Oh, I’m ok”.
But inside I am crying, as I turn away.
And so my old friend, I shall paint on a smile,
As I have from the start,
You never knowing all the while,
All I’ve just said to you in my heart.
A mothers words, by Deborah Turner
Have a good weekend Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
Tears in Heaven
Would you know my name
if I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven
Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please
Beyond the door
There's a peace I'm sure
And I know
There'll be no more
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven.
Eric Clapton
LOVE AS ALWAYS ALISON ♥
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