| Location | Beckenham |
| Age | 24 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 31/07/1981 |
| Date of Death | 16/06/2006 |
| Visitors | 20,644 since 07/02/2007 |
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STUART WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
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Precious son of Yvonne & Roger
Much loved brother of Colene & Karen
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Our hearts are full of love for the Son
We'll always treasure
We grieve not only his passing
but the years we will not share with him.
We will not let your passing
To become more inportant than your life.
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Stuart was born on the 31st July 1981.Stuart grew up in Beckenham where until recently he lived
with his mum and dad Yvonne and Roger. Stuart had worked as a roofer,but was out of work when he
was killed in a tragic road accident on the 16th June 2006. Stuart had gone out for a drink with two
of his closest friends,but had left them to make his way home. Stuart was on his own when he was hit
by a car, there is no blame on the driver it was a tragic accident.
Stuart has two sisters Colene and Karen and three nephews and one niece, Alex Kieran Katie And
Jack. He thought the world of them all.
Stuart was a very kind hearted person,he didn\'t have much but what he had he would always share.
Stuart thought the world of his friends and would always refer to them as his Bros.
Stuart got on with everybody he was a very friendly out going person.
He loved children and they all loved him,they just seemed to take to him.
There are times he made us laugh and times he made us cry but we are so proud he was our son and we
are so glad he was given to us even if it was for a short while.
Stuart was a very special person and losing him has left a pain in our hearts and a great gape in
our lifes which can never be filled until the time comes for us to be reunited with him.. Words
cannot spell out how much we love and miss you Stuart, the tears keep falling and the pain won\'tgo
away. .. If we could take your place we wouldn\'t hesitate.
xxxxxx WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH xxxxxx
IN LOVING MEMORY
OF OUR PRECIOUS SON
Something will remind us
We never know just when
It might be something someone says
and it all comes back again.
The times we spent together
The happiness, the fun,
Once again we feel the pain
Of life without our SON.
It says that times a healer
i\'m not sure this is true,
there\'s not a day goes by SON
That we don\'t t cry for you.
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Thank you to everyone who has looked at Stuarts site and for adding a tribute or lighting a
candle. We thank you all for your continuous support.
"A butterfly lights beside us, like a sunbeam... and for a brief moment it's glory and beauty belong to our world... but then it flys on again, and although we wish it could have stayed, we are so thankful to have seen it at all"
God bless you Stuart.XXX
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HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND,THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS LOVE GILLIAN XXXXXX
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LOVE TO STUART & YVONNE XX
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LOVE
Generations have asked
Where in the body is soul’s place?
What fallacy, this endeavor
As if mortal frame could contain
Eternity.
The body’s in the soul--
Surrounded by its
Soft shell carapace
Of forever.
--Francine L. Trevens, "Fallacy"
Sending some Sunday love.
God Bless
The Rainbow comes and goes,
And lovely is the Rose,
The Moon doth with delight
Look round her when the heavens are bare;
Waters on a starry night
Are beautiful and fair;
The sunshine is a glorious birth;
But yet I know, where'er I go,
That there hath passed away a glory from the earth…
William Wordsworth
God Bless.
We wish that we could see you
For just a little while
We wish that we could hug you
And see your loving smile
But wishing gets us nowhere and longing is in vain
So we will hold you in our hearts until we meet again.
Love always x
The Pit of Grief
The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.
The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.
Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes, I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.
Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.
Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.
My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see, they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance, rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better, to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The 'person' who is emerging from the pit.
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I close my eyes and see the past
But time with you went much too fast,
The way your arms would reach for me,
And how your childhood used to be.
You were my precious, loving son,
But Heaven must have needed one.
For angels came and took your hand
And led you to God’s promised land.
I often long to see your face,
And no - one will ever take your place.
I also know you’re in God’s care,
And I will someday join you there.
And on that day we meet again,
I’ll hear you laugh and see you grin.
I close my eyes and I can see
A loving son who waits for me
In my thoughts & prayers. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
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